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9780757005220
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$17.95 USD
06/01/2023
Square One Publishers
WORLD
6 X 9 in
168 pg

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Description

Rape is, unfortunately, an all-too-common violent crime usually perpetrated against women. For victims, the process of sharing information about an assault with loves ones or reporting the crime to the police can be harrowing, embarrassing, and painful. The responses of others can greatly affect the way a rape survivor copes. Often the men who are closest to rape survivors—intimate partners, friends, and family members—are simply unprepared to offer the right assistance. The wrong word or action may trigger an unexpected reaction. Written by Alan W. McEvoy, PhD, When the Subject Is Rape is designed specifically to illustrate the role men can play as allies in a woman’s recovery from rape.

This book examines the many aspects of rape. It looks at both the short- and long-term emotional and psychological impacts rape can have on a woman, what she can expect during the prosecution of her rapist, and strategies that can help her to recover from the assault. It discusses how the men in her life should communicate with her and address her needs throughout her recovery, and describes how they should conduct themselves to avoid unintentionally causing her more pain. It also explains how to identify changes in behavior that may signal an undisclosed rape. Even if a rape goes unreported, both the emotional consequences and the need for support throughout the recovery process will still be present.

Rape is not an easy subject to discuss. Sexual violence can radically alter the course of a woman's life. By understanding the trauma associated with rape and other forms of sexual assault, men can play an important part in a woman's healing process. When the Subject Is Rape provides information that can help men to create a climate of support for the empowerment of women who are on the path to recovery.

Alan W. McEvoy, PhD
Author Bio

Alan W. McEvoy, PhD, earned his doctorate in sociology from Western Michigan University. He is an emeritus professor at Northern Michigan University, where he served as head of the Department of Sociology and Anthropology. He is the author or coauthor of numerous works on rape, child abuse, intimate partner violence, toxic romantic relationships, youth suicide, and bullying. He has appeared on ​The Oprah Winfrey Show​, 20/20, and many other national and regional television programs, and has also served as an expert witness in litigation involving violence in schools. He currently resides in Marquette, Michigan.

Review Quote - Publishers Weekly

"[An] insightful manual . . . offers men tools to best support female rape victims in their lives. McEvoy defines basic vocabulary and elucidates how victims can experience a variety of complicated emotions, from anger or shame to feelings of isolation . . . McEvoy handles his topic with sensitivity and is careful not to overstate the man’s role in the healing process—it’s vital for women to maintain total agency throughout—while still making clear that they can play an important support role. This is an ideal road map for male partners or friends who want to help, but don’t know where to start."

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"[A] wonderful and practical book of guidance . . . a major contribution to our society."

Review Quote - Grady Harp, top book reviewer

"A timely and much needed support guide . . . the timing of this important publication could not be more propitious: the topic of sexual harassment has become a constant in the news and media. Dr. McEvoy provides better understanding of the implications, complexities, and the need for comprehension of the impact of rape and sexual abuse on victims and especially on those who support the victim . . . this is a strong book."

Review Quote - Medium.com

“[E]xtremely insightful . . . McEvoy writes in a straightforward but empathetic style, never letting the reader lose sight of the book’s fundamental goal: to help a man become a better ally if a woman he loves has been raped. By organizing the narrative into clear topics, chapter by chapter, he allows readers to come to terms with their limitations and expand their perspective . . . shine[s] a light on topics from immediate and the long-term consequences, to rape’s impact on sexual intimacy, to working with law enforcement, to the use of rape as a hate crime, and finally, the long journey beyond trauma to healing. There’s a continuous sense of humanity and sensitivity to McEvoy’s guidance . . . With this book in hand, men can help become positive allies, and support recovery and growth in the face of profound trauma.”

Review Quote - Midwest Book Review ("Library Bookwatch")

"Expertly written . . . Most rapes and sexual asssaults against women go unreported, or are reported years after the event . . . But whether reported or unreported, women need the emotional support of their family members and friends—including the men in their lives, be they husbands, boyfriends, brothers, fathers, or uncles. Rape and sexual assault is to be found in every community, and on every campus, so every community library, every college/university library, and every counseling center needs to have a copy of When the Subject Is Rape."